Our History

In the winter of 1986-87, Friendship House first opened it’s doors as a thrift store to serve the growing community of individuals experiencing homelessness. In the beginning, Meeting Ground, a Maryland-based homeless ministry, operated the thrift store and was supported by the New Castle Presbytery. Friendship House became well known among the community and the needs of those it served began growing. In response, The Friendship House changed to remain open for twenty-four hours a day. The evenings were cold, many came to The Friendship House at night, seeking shelter from the elements. During the day, it became a place for assistance and advocacy. While some persons continued to come to shop at the store, an increasing number of individuals and families came seeking help to escape their homeless condition.

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On April 1, 1987, the city fire marshal ordered The Friendship House to close until it was fully licensed as a shelter. At about the same time, church volunteers from Immanuel Church, Highlands, Westminster Presbyterian Church, and First and Central Presbyterian Church convinced their church communities to co-sponsor this homeless ministry. In partnership with Meeting Ground, these churches, and several committed individuals, formally incorporated as Friendship House, Inc. (a Delaware nonprofit corporation with 501(c)(3) status). Although the thrift store never reopened, Friendship House began building a network of programs and services the following Fall. In September 1987, Friendship House began serving the Sunday Morning Breakfast, that is still around today.  In October 1987, it opened a daytime, drop-in center at Fourth and Market Streets.

Since then, Friendship House has evolved into a multi-site, holistic homeless ministry. Its work-force includes thirty-five employees and more than one thousand volunteers. Its coalition of community partners includes more than one hundred faith communities, fifteen schools, twenty community organizations. and fifty local businesses. Friendship House currently operates one emergency shelter and twelve halfway houses, serving seventy-five displaced individuals and families on any given night. Its three daytime centers in Wilmington, Newark, and Middletown daily serve over two hundred seventy-five displaced clients.  Working with a coalition of twenty New Castle county congregations, its winter sanctuary program operates two weekend daytime drop-ins and two “Code Purple” night sanctuaries in Wilmington and Newark. Its clothing ministry, Friendship House Clothing Bank, distributes more than 15,000 pounds of quality used clothing monthly through its network of more than two hundred fifty distribution centers and offers employment training to over thirty women each year.

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