A Fearful Moment Leads to Grace: A Graduate’s Story

By Kim Eppehimer, Friendship House Executive Director

Eileen Taylor came to the Friendship House Transitional Housing program after she graduated from a program at the Salvation Army in February, 2016. Struggling to remain out of her addiction and homelessness, Eileen was determined, scared and just stubborn enough to overcome every obstacle.

While employed as a job trainee at the Friendship House Clothing Bank, Eileen applied for a position at BJ’s Wholesale Club. Although the position was part-time, Eileen was thrilled to receive the job.

Eileen worked hard on herself and at her job. Her part time hours became full-time and her responsibilities began to increase. Once she graduated from our program in January, 2017, she and another graduate shared an apartment for a year. Lacking part time experienced workers at our Clothing Bank, Eileen agreed to come back to help manage the warehouse. At this point, Eileen was self-sufficient enough to rent a place of her own. She was working hard, often tired, and going strong.

Then, in November of last year, tragedy struck; tragedy accompanied by a miracle. Eileen got home from work and was relaxing when a friend called and asked if they could get together that evening. Reluctantly, Eileen pulled herself together to go out. During that evening, the building in which Eileen had an apartment burned down due to an oxygen tank explosion. If Eileen had been home, the fire department said she may not have survived since her apartment was right next to the one in which the fire started.

We were all incredibly grateful she was alive and deeply saddened she had lost all her possessions, as well as her home. Eileen was experiencing homelessness all over again. However, this time, she had a loving, supportive community to hold and uplift her.

Friendship House Board members and volunteers donated gift cards so that Eileen could buy clothing (after she had gotten what she could from the Clothing Bank). As a graduate of Women’s Housing, Eileen was welcomed back into one of the Palmer House apartments, to stay as long as necessary. Thus, she had a roof over her head; she had friends to support her; she had gifts of money to feed and clothe herself. Mostly, she had time and space to recover from the devastation and trauma. A very special gift came from Mark Aitken, a good friend and supporter of Friendship House, which covered all of Eileen’s expenses, including new furnishings, when she was able to move into her own place.

Although devastated by her loss, Eileen remained grateful to God and to the many friends who helped her. She has been in her new apartment for several months and continues to work hard at BJs. In fact, her hard work won her the Employee of the Year award from BJs!

Eileen never lost faith in God or herself during this tragedy and has regained everything she needs. Without the Friendship House community, she would truly have been lost. To all of you who support Friendship House, we gratefully say, “Thank you.”

4 Comments on "A Fearful Moment Leads to Grace: A Graduate’s Story"

  • What a wonderful story and a miracle indeed!

    Not selling anything but renter’s insurance can cost as little as $10 per month and I would recommend that, if possible, your folks consider getting a policy to provide coverage for personal belongings, money for living expenses and a liability coverage to respond if the fire/loss is caused by their negligence.

  • Thank you for sharing Eileen’s story. She is incredibly strong and a very caring person. It was a pleasure to work with her at the Clothing Bank. Thank you to Friendship House for making Eileen’s recovery possible, twice and surrounding her with love.

  • Eileen, had God in her life from her Mom & Dad. Her Mom went to church and prayed for Eileen, when she lost herself to drugs.. She wanted nothing more then for Eileen to find herself again and beat the addiction.Nobody would be happier for Eileen then her Mom. She,’s beaming down at you, for your renewal with God , And all of your hard work.

  • Thank Jesus for all the blessings he has bestowed upon us.

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